That Time I Abandoned My Blog and Went to the Grand Canyon

18 Apr

IMG_7970I’ve been away from this blog for almost two months. And that, of course, is entirely unacceptable for someone who puts the words avid blogger on a resume that she then proceeds to send out to potential employers.

Still, two months can go by very fast. In that time, I’ve accepted and began working at two new jobs (one of which is part time and one of which is slated to become full time in the future), wrote a very long essay about the damaging effects of Jansenist society to women in Québec in the 1930s and 1940s (which, despite my very limited knowledge of any of those things, still got a fairly good grade), wrote another very long essay about the role of family in the movie Goodfellas (which I am still waiting to hear back on), met up with a friend that I have not seen for almost two years in Las Vegas, came down to the Grand Canyon, finished three out of my four year-end exams, and caught a really odd strain of cold that had me sneezing like a madwoman for three days but then went away as suddenly as it had appeared.

Right. I’m guessing that words such as Las Vegas and Grand Canyon will interest you more than tha odd strain of cold that I caught. I did go on a quick trip to Vegas (which I will be blogging a lot about in the next few days, by the way) and ended up throwing a bit of the Grand Canyon in there as well. It was a grand, old time (ha, ha, ha, you see what I did there?) that I’ve documented in excess. Here are the pictures.




Spring 2014 Jewelry Trends

9 Mar

1. Anthropologie Beaded Chevron Necklace 2. J.Crew Spiked Drop Earrings 3. Topshop Triple Bright Flower Necklace 4. Fossil Glass Necklace 5. Joomi Lim Double Row Spike Bracelet 6. Anthropologie Root-Needles Necklace 7. Kate Spade New York Knotical Bracelet 8. Club Monaco Double Pavé Bracelet 9. Kate Spade Thin Spade Turnlock Bangle 10. Sunahara Black Triangle Cuff 11. Tahari Capri Stretch Bangle 12. Kate Spade New York Polka Dot Bangle 13. Johnny Loves Rosie Baguette Surround Burst Necklace 14. Kate Spade New York New York Lemon Tart Pendant 15. Kate Spade New York Giverny Floral Mesh Bracelet 16. Kate Spade Giverny Floral Multi Strand Necklace

Spring is so great for a lot of reasons and the increased intake of Vitamin D is one of them. Being able to shed wool coats, wear more dresses and play outfits up with colourful jewelry is yet another. So let’s talk jewelry, shall we? It seems like new trends are popping up all over the place and just about every designer, at every price point, is coming out with something that you just have to have. Here are some of the current jewelry trends that have been coming up in my research (which mainly involves reading a lot of magazines and fashion blogs) and that I’m really looking forward to in the upcoming months. I am particularly fond of the Kate Spade Giverny Floral Mesh bracelet, which is about the the loveliest thing that I’ve ever seen. And yes, I know that I say that a lot.

Who Needs Journalism Anyway? Musings and Rants

5 Mar

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About once a week, someone will post a Facebook article about the jobs that are needed, that are now, that will be attracting all the graduates in just a few short years. And every single week, I am not at all surprised to find that what I want to do ranks pretty low on that list. Actually, it rarely even makes the list.

Journalism. The one career choice that all of our mothers had warned us about.

And while I’ve gotten pretty used to justifying my career choices (Yes, I know that I will be making very little money for a very long timeYes, I know that cutbacks are happening in all the major newspapers and magazines across the country) to just about anyone who asks about what I’m doing with my life (except the parents, who have been supportive from day one), today was the day that I finally snapped.

Today was the day that somebody asked if I was aware that in order to make it in journalism you have to be really, really good? Which, followed the natural but unspoken conclusion, I wasn’t.

And that just unleashed a can of worms that I didn’t even know was in me. It made me realize that I’m angry. I’m angry because people always say that we should all go into chemical engineering or geology or Information Technology because that is where “the money lies.” I’m angry because conversations about what I’m studying in university always start with the “English, eh? So you want to teach?” and end with the inevitable “What else then?” as though there are no other options for anyone who was foolish enough to choose the humanities in the first place. I’m angry because there were times (thankfully very few!) when people replied with a pernicious “See! hat’s what the real world is like!” when I told them that I did not get the internship or received a polite rejection letter minutes after I sent in an article to a magazine.

I still can’t get over the sting that I felt when a high school teacher sniffed back the pejorative “Journalism? You really don’t look like that type…” when I told him that I was considering it as a career option. I still remember the family friend who said that “Journalism’s fun and all, but you’ll obviously forget all about it once you have a family to feed and real bills to pay.”

Because that, no matter how you view it, is a dig.

And maybe I’m just in a permanent state of denial about what is really awaiting me once I walk out of those (metaphorical) university doors with an Arts degree and an I’m-going-to-write-because-I-want-to-write mentality, but I’ve always felt that, no matter how needed the profession, going after jobs for the wrong reasons (hype, pressure, narrow assessment of what is most needed at the moment…) rarely ends well. I feel that if you know, deep within you, that something is right for you, then you should probably do it. If it doesn’t pay well, then you should probably do it on the side while you also do somewhere else.

But you should still go after it. Because if you don’t, somebody else most definitely will.

Oscars 2014: Or How I ‘Ooh’ and ‘Aah’ At Some Dresses and Totally Cringe At Others

3 Mar

Ah, the Oscars. This is the one night of the year when all the famous people get together for a night of great awards and (of course!) great fashion. And even though I did not watch this year’s show in its entirety (three and a half hours during midterm season is just not feasible!), I definitely went through all the pictures to see who was wearing what. As always, there were the styles that took my breath away and the styles that made me want to look away. Here are some of my favourite stand-outs.

The Dresses That Worked…:

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Jenna Dewan-Tatum’s  taupe Reem Acra gown is perfect. I love both the feathery skirt and the way that the sparkly top blends into the neckline so seamlessly. Gorgeous.

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Even though Penelope Cruz’s pink, billowing Giambattista Valli dress has been subject to a lot of criticism, I happen to think that it’s elegant in a way that transcends the more body-hugging styles of the day. To me, it just screams Old Hollywood and looks especially stylish with the contrasting black accessories.

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Sandra Bullock looks fabulous in her dark blue Alexander McQueen gown. It is perhaps its simplicity (or, of course, the magnificent tailoring!) that makes it such a stunner.

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Pharrell Williams and his wife Helen Lasichanh rocked complementary tuxes at the Oscars and looked absolutely fab doing it!

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Bette Midler’s Reem Acra gown is ah-mazing. The red, the flowers, the train… Everything looks like it was made especially for her!

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Lupita Nyong’o certainly stole the show in a powder blue Prada gown that, according to her stylist, was inspired by champagne bubbles. With the flowy princess skirt (don’t you just love the way the small sparkles are interspersed throughout the skirt?) and silver headband, Lupita looks just like Cinderella.

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Even though Giuliana Rancic’s Paolo Sebastian dress ripped and caused a wardrobe malfunction right on the red carpet, I still happen to think that it was one of the prettiest gowns of the night. The colour complements her skin tone nicely and the top looks like it was painted on. Very princessy.

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I love mermaid dresses and I love Rachel Smith’s Sherri Hill gown. The colour keeps the dress elegant and subdued, while the ruffled skirt still gives it that little bit of pizzazz.

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Even though Kelly Osbourne’s style is quite far removed from my own (in an other-end-of-the-spectrum kind of way), I happened to really like the way that she paired her cream Badgley Mischka gown with a small, sparkly capelet. Edgy yet elegant.

…And The Dresses That Didn’t!:

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I didn’t really care for actress Emma Watson’s dress, to be honest. To me, the skirt is a little too sheer and the cut of the top resembles a sleeveless t-shirt. Not a dazzler.

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Even though I just said that I love mermaid dresses, I was not quite wowed by Glenn Close’s tight-at-the-top-loose-at-the-bottom gown. To me, it just looks gloomy and  too much like something that you’d wear to church.

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Awkward pleating, unfortunate spaghetti straps, boxy cut… Unfortunately for actress Veerle Baetens, this dress makes me think of high school prom. (And when we’re talking about high fashion, that is never a good thing!)

Save or Splurge?: The Wedge Sneaker

27 Feb

These Isabel Marant wedge sneakers have been gracing the pages of various fashion magazines for more than a year now. For good reason, too, because high heeled sneakers are so effortlessly hip in all the right ways. That said, they also come with a pretty hefty price tag and are, in my opinion, far too trendy (in other words, my mother thinks they’re ugly and future fashionistas will most likely scorn at pictures of us wearing them…) to spend that much money on. So what’s a girl to do? Fortunately, there is a solution out there and it’s called Aldo.

The Numata sneakers from Aldo look very similar to the originals and, with the most recent reduction, cost only 2% of the price (I’ve actually calculated it!). I bought them about a month ago, when they were just reduced to $40 (so you, my friends, are in an even better position than I was in!) and love wearing them with skinny jeans or t-shirt dresses. Once, while I was walking to class in my university, a girl asked me if they were the originals. And that’s what I call a deal.

Jobs I Would Really, Really Stink At: A Short Reflection

26 Feb

Oh, jobs. Have you ever given some thought about ones that you would never be able to do? And no, I’m not talking about a World’s Worst Job sort of scenario (although making up that list is a whole barrel of laughs), but rather the regular, well-esteemed professions that just do not suit you in any way. For me, three come up right off the bat.


Some of my friends and family like to keep up a running joke about how I would make the world’s worst nurse and even though it pains me to think that I could possibly stink at anything, I have to agree with them on that one. I have a paranoia of blood, needles, and blood-borne infections that used to drive me to tears and sanitizer for no reason. And while this phobia has somewhat mellowed out over the years, I would still be the nurse who’d catch the first plane to Timbuktu at the first sight of a syringe. And I figure that that’s not really what they’re looking for in a hospital.

Also: memorizing scientific terms has never been my strong suit. In fact, it is an activity that I will generally try to avoid.

Cab driver, bus driver, any kind of driver….

Driving and I have a bit of a strained relationship. One in which it took me three driving instructors (one of whom flat-out refused to work with me) and an undisclosed number of road tests to finally get my license. And while I eventually learned enough to be able to pass my test, get around and, you know, not crash into things, I’d never feel comfortable driving around a bus full of people. But the good news is that I don’t have to worry about that. I’d probably be banned from even applying for any kind of driving job once anyone who was foolish enough to call me back for an interview took a good, hard look at my road test record.


Sitting down to do my own taxes nearly drains the life out of me every time. Doing somebody else’s for a living would actually kill me.

Giving You The Scoop: 6 Basic Black Tees

20 Feb

Ah, the black t-shirt. The lifesaver. The go-to closet staple. I personally like the black t-shirt even more than I like the white t-shirt because it will go with more outfits. Ripped jeans or fancy skirt. Cardigan or blazer. We all have at least one or two kicking around our closet at any given time, but I’ve made finding the perfect black t-shirt my mission. I have, after all, been using it as my ‘Fashionable Plan B’ since high school and have gone through no small number. And while I love finding a great deal more than anyone, this is the one time when Hanes just will not cut it. In order for the simple black t-shirt to look amazing each and every time, it has to fit perfectly. Here are a few of my personal favourites.

Note: I don’t like to wear v-necks, so I won’t usually post them on the blog. I know that they look great on a lot of people, but I just do not happen to be one of them.

Club Monaco’s ‘Sunny’ T-Shirt ($39.50, but regularly goes on sale):

The Club Monaco Sunny t-shirts are about as soft and comfortable as soft and comfortable can be. Wearing one can only be compared to wrapping yourself in Egyptian bedsheets. I will usually wait until they go on sale (they often do!) and stock up on three or four at a time. That said, there is one major downside: these t-shirts don’t hold up well in the wash and begin to start looking worn much sooner than I’d like. But I guess you can’t have everything.

Banana Republic’s ‘Luxe-Touch’ Piped Tee ($39.50, but regularly goes on sale):

Again, this is not a t-shirt that I would recommend  buying for full price, as it will go on sale every season. I really like the way the little embellishment on the collar sets this t-shirt apart from all the others.

The Gap’s ‘Favorite Short-Sleeve Scoop T’ ($16.95):

Stock up with abandon because this is about as cheap as well-fitted t-shirts will go. Why not also try experimenting with some different colours or fits (this particular shirt is body-hugging, but The Gap also carries many loose-fitting styles)?

Urban Outfitters ‘Truly Madly Deeply Off-The-Shoulder Tee’ ($24):

Urban Outfitters is the place to go if you’re looking for a t-shirt with some edge. Last summer, I found a black tee that was all business at the front, but had a cool criss-cross pattern at the back. This season, I am lusting after this off-the-shoulder style, which I’m already picturing with white jeans in the spring.

Wilfred ‘Tandis’ T-Shirt ($30):

For a line that is sold in Aritzia, the Wilfred Tandis t-shirt is a very reasonably-priced addition to your t-shirt collection. It also has a softer hem, so it’s perfect for sticking out instead of tucking in.

rag & bone ‘Basic Brando Tee’ ($80):

If money is no object, the rag & bone Basic Brando t-shirt is made out of Peruvian slubbed cotton (whatever that means!) and looks pretty darn awesome. But in the end, a plain black tee is still a plain black tee and any extra $80 on my part will definitely not go for that.


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